Why you never know what to wear

When you are looking at your closet you may not know what to wear even if you have a closet full of clothes. This is one of the most frustrating things because with so much and so many options you will often have these five issues.

1/2/20232 min read

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When you’re standing in front of your closet, wondering what to wear, even with a wardrobe full of clothes, it can feel incredibly frustrating. You have options, yet nothing feels right.

If you recognize yourself in any of these, it’s time to shift how you shop, what you bring into your wardrobe, and how you approach getting dressed each day.

1. You shop too many trends and don’t have enough basics

Trends come and go, but your basics are what hold your wardrobe together. That’s why I teach the power of a capsule wardrobe. A capsule wardrobe isn’t about having less; it’s about having what works. Every piece mixes and matches effortlessly, helping you create endless outfits you love without the overwhelm. It’s the foundation of a timeless, confident style.

2. You don’t shop according to your lifestyle

Your wardrobe should reflect the life you actually live.
If you’re a stay-at-home mom, a ministry leader, or you work in an office, your closet should support the rhythm of your real days.
Stop holding onto “someday” clothes that don’t serve this season. Curate a wardrobe that honors where God has you now.

3. You feel uninspired by your wardrobe

For me, that season came when 70% of my closet was T-shirts.
There’s nothing wrong with that unless it doesn’t inspire you.
I thrive on seeing feminine blouses, skirts, prints, and pieces that make me feel alive. You might feel most at home in cozy neutrals or bold colors. Either way, your wardrobe should reflect your personality and spark joy every morning.

4. You buy what you want, not what you need

Impulse buying is one of the fastest ways to clutter your closet and drain your confidence. Instead, shop intentionally. Make a wardrobe list just like you would a grocery list, focus on the gaps, not the glitter. And here’s my golden rule: don’t remove the tags until you’ve worn them. That keeps you accountable and helps you evaluate what truly works for your lifestyle.

5. You don’t plan your outfits ahead

Planning your outfits isn’t about rigidity; it’s about peace.
When you lay out your clothes for the week, you eliminate the morning stress and step into your day prepared and confident.
A little intentionality on Sunday can change your entire week.

If you’re ready to stop feeling overwhelmed by your closet and start dressing with clarity, confidence, and purpose, I’d love to invite you to join The Style Empowerment Society, my free community where women are learning how to build timeless wardrobes, define their signature style, and rediscover who God created them to be.

Join us here: Style Empowerment Society on Skool